After hearing this testimony, I pity that there could have been a chance for reconciliation among the arguing pastors to serve as good example to the congregation. For those pastors who stowed away, I hope that they remember what they’ve taught in Matthew 5:23-24 before going further to their ministerial work in the other church organization, "So, what if you are offering your gift at the altar and remember that someone has something against you? Leave your gift there and go make peace with that person. Then come and offer your gift.” I hope that we remember the continuing responsibility of equipping the saints for the work of ministry, of building up the body of Christ. We are our brother’s keepers in one way or another.
In my outmost desire to find an article about this situation, I found this UPCI website, which I would like to share with all saints as a reminder. I conclude that the Epistles can save the church of today from splits and that following peace with all men is not a bridge too far. Thanks to the videos of Rev. David Bernard, UPCI Superintendent.
http://launchyourministry.com/index.php/ministerial-development/viewcategory/16/ministry-development
Deterioration
Deterioration is never sudden.
No garden "suddenly" overgrows with thorns.
No church "suddenly" splits.
No building "suddenly" crumbles.
No marriage "suddenly" breaks down.
No nation "suddenly" becomes a mediocre power.
No person "suddenly" becomes base.
Slowly, almost imperceptibly,
Certain things are accepted that once were rejected.
Things once considered hurtful are now secretly tolerated.
At the outset it appears harmless,
Perhaps even exciting,
But the wedge it brings leaves a gap
That grows wider as moral erosion joins hands with spiritual decay.
The gaps become a canyon.
That "way which seem right"
Becomes, in fact, "the way of death."
Excerpt from the book, Growing Strong in the Seasons of Life, by Charles R. Swindoll, page 106